Through the process of a divorce I am relearning a lot about myself. I have always felt like I was independent and capable, but through a decade of marriage I became fully intertwined and dependent on a partner (as it should be).
The last few months I have purchased my NEW own car for the first time! I also was able to buy my own house completely on my own for the first time!
I have been very blessed and thankful for a decade to have the help and support from my ex husband. It was mildly terrifying to think I would be doing this on my own financially. This whole process I have been shocked at being able to qualify for things. I have been so thankful for the help and support from so many family and friends encouraging me through this!
I have learned that I am completely capable of doing hard things I have reassured myself that I am able to take care of my kids financially and it’s made me even more thankful for having a husband helping before and for a fiancé helping me moving forward!!
I’ve learned I can do the hard things I’m thankful I don’t always have to and I have one so much gratefulness through the stress and through the chaos of all of this
This was a lesson I keep relearning throughout new phases. Learned this when I got my first apartment at 19. Learned this again when I joined the army against all people thinking I would fail. Learned this again through intense trials and struggles with health and crisis.
Thankful I can keep growing and keep learning!
I am looking forward to our next phase of life!
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